Who wants end? who wants goodbyes?
You're beautiful relationship is coming to an end..
You're best friends are saying goodbye...
It hurts so much, it is so painful to make something end especially when it is so important or sentimental for you, saying goodbye to a very important person or material for you, in other words letting that person or material go, away from you. Some people were so materialistic, loving material and earthly things it's part of being a person but, the very thing that we need to think is a person that can never be replaced by anyone even expensive material things because, a person is a person who just have one life to live. Let's give importance to the people who are here with us, no matter how many fights we have had, no matter how much they are stubborn they are still human who needs love by the people who they expect that they will accept for who they are and what they are, their strength and weaknesses. Don't lose hope, every ending has a new beginning, every goodbye's have Hello's.
Sunday, October 14, 2012
"TRUE FEELINGS?"
True feelings are the feelings that you don't just act out for pretending something that isn't real.
In terms of love, true feelings is the feeling that just came out without planning, even you try to hide it but, it just came out from somewhere without expecting.
Let me tell you a personal reason from a true story that happened and until now the answer is maybe.
There was a teenagers who knew each other for 1 and a half yr. since they entered the relationship they both knew that one of them is going to leave. They compromise and made a promise, thinking that they felt "true feelings" but let me tell you something, they don't really feel the true feelings we are seeking for, maybe at that moment that was their thought, that was the message their brain was processing thinking that it was from their heart. When one of them left, everything changed even their friendship, they thought it will work out but, NO. It didn't, until now no one knows what's next, if they're love story had end or it is just a "pause" moment for their love story and waiting for the right time for their book to be open again...
In terms of love, true feelings is the feeling that just came out without planning, even you try to hide it but, it just came out from somewhere without expecting.
Let me tell you a personal reason from a true story that happened and until now the answer is maybe.
There was a teenagers who knew each other for 1 and a half yr. since they entered the relationship they both knew that one of them is going to leave. They compromise and made a promise, thinking that they felt "true feelings" but let me tell you something, they don't really feel the true feelings we are seeking for, maybe at that moment that was their thought, that was the message their brain was processing thinking that it was from their heart. When one of them left, everything changed even their friendship, they thought it will work out but, NO. It didn't, until now no one knows what's next, if they're love story had end or it is just a "pause" moment for their love story and waiting for the right time for their book to be open again...
Sunday, August 19, 2012
"People who experienced failures are the ones' who succeed"
People who encounter failures are the one's who usually succeed in life. You know why?
First of all, take note of the word "failures" it's not "failure" it's with "S" which means it's plural, it's more than one failure. Well, people who failed many times are the ones' who always try and try until they got it right. The more you try, the more chances of succeeding. It's a matter of chance, when you take the opportunity to try it's either you succeed or you fail. Failure is always part of a human life, no human could be an exception to that, and no human who doesn't fail even the most genius person, they experienced failures in terms of experimenting but through failure they discover a lot of things, they use their own failure or mistakes to make things right, they made it beneficial for them to know what's wrong what did they do and how did they fail through failure they surpass in a lot of things, they try and try until they got answers to their questions, until they do what they need to do and until they succeed. Failure may sound negative for people, but the truth is it depends on a person how they would accept their own failure. When you fail, it's not the end of the world for you, that's why people have chances, if you have chance to try again, why don't take the opportunity maybe, if you would try agin it would make you more better than before. EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON, trust God, trust yourself and be humble in everything, it will make you a better person and it'll make you surpass every challenges in life.
First of all, take note of the word "failures" it's not "failure" it's with "S" which means it's plural, it's more than one failure. Well, people who failed many times are the ones' who always try and try until they got it right. The more you try, the more chances of succeeding. It's a matter of chance, when you take the opportunity to try it's either you succeed or you fail. Failure is always part of a human life, no human could be an exception to that, and no human who doesn't fail even the most genius person, they experienced failures in terms of experimenting but through failure they discover a lot of things, they use their own failure or mistakes to make things right, they made it beneficial for them to know what's wrong what did they do and how did they fail through failure they surpass in a lot of things, they try and try until they got answers to their questions, until they do what they need to do and until they succeed. Failure may sound negative for people, but the truth is it depends on a person how they would accept their own failure. When you fail, it's not the end of the world for you, that's why people have chances, if you have chance to try again, why don't take the opportunity maybe, if you would try agin it would make you more better than before. EVERYTHING HAPPENS FOR A REASON, trust God, trust yourself and be humble in everything, it will make you a better person and it'll make you surpass every challenges in life.
"Time Runs so FAST"
Time runs so fast to the point that I didn't notice I will be going to celebrate my 1st yr. of being here in U.S. Well, even though I am able to survive living somewhere I am not really used to live, I still think of my friends, and family that I left way back home. It's not so easy to adjust, to move on and start a new life. Starting a new life doesn't mean you're going to forget your past and pretend it never happen. Starting a new life means you're going to create a new you with the combination of the old you. Your past gives you strength wherever you are now, people won't reach what they have now if they don't come from anywhere. I made a lot of decisions in my everyday life. Before I have a lot of dreams, a lot of simple kind of things like, I want to be as smart as my classmates, I want to be a first honor student, I want to go to U.S even just for once, I want to have a lot of friend and many many more... But now, all of that simple wishes came true without any expectation in myself, I just let myself live life without expectation, I realized that one of the things that I don't really like is to expect, because expect is always with disappointment. I don't want to be disappointed nor to expect for nothing. My simple dreams came true because of giving everything that I can, to do the best that I can and to trust Gd whatever He wants for me, Expect The Unexpected. I always pray for something and I will ask God to grant my wish if it will be good for me, "if not I understand and it's okay if you won't because I trust you that you have greater things that you will provide for me." You won't be angry if your wishes won't come true if you understand why you don't have it.
*LIVE, PRAY, & LOVE*
YOU WON'T BE HERE, IF YOU DIDN'T COME THERE.
YOU'RE NOT HERE IN PRESENT IF YOU DIDN'T COME FROM YOUR PAST, so be glad you came there and accept the things that are already done, nothing will happen if you'll always go back to the memories you want to erase, because no matter what you do with that memory it won't happen again.
If something happened that you never wanted to happen, damage has been done so MOVE ON!.
*LIVE, PRAY, & LOVE*
YOU WON'T BE HERE, IF YOU DIDN'T COME THERE.
YOU'RE NOT HERE IN PRESENT IF YOU DIDN'T COME FROM YOUR PAST, so be glad you came there and accept the things that are already done, nothing will happen if you'll always go back to the memories you want to erase, because no matter what you do with that memory it won't happen again.
If something happened that you never wanted to happen, damage has been done so MOVE ON!.
Tuesday, June 26, 2012
"When we sinned against God, He forgives, when we planned to give up, he gives us strength to go on."
As I journey my life, I draw more closely to God but, it doesn't mean I am not tempted anymore. I am unworthy, no one is worthy, but God alone.
When I committed sins against him, He FORGIVES.
When I planned to give up, He gives me STRENGTH to go on.
When I am in pain, He HEALS me.
When I prayed, He answers.
God may answer Yes, Just wait, and No , When we asked for something in him through prayer, He gives signs about his answer, He knows what's best for us. Don't just open your eyes, open also your heart to see. Don't just pray and pray without works. When you asked for something, worked on it, don't just wait without doing anything because nothing will happen, God is there to help, guide, protect and accompany you in your journey, he is your best friend that will never leave you, he is just there waiting for you to open your heart to see him, he will be there wherever you are. You can't see him when you're feeling angry and when pride is overwhelming you. Be humble, good, and show obedience in His commandments and you'll see.
It may be hard to do all the commandments of the Lord, take it easy but sincerely, step by step it's like climbing a stairs, it may take too long but at the end it's worth it.
Faith without work is Dead. It's like a body without soul.
"Heaven is on Earth"
People who believes in one God are the ones who are successful.
Some people are successful both Heaven and on Earth, some experienced so much pain, and hatred on Earth because of doing the right thing but surely be comfortable with God in Heaven.
I don't know what heaven looks like, but I have no doubts that in Heaven you will experience happiness and equality. Doing the right things results to good consequences but, people are tempted by things that aren't necessary like Earthly things, being obsessed with money and power, that they forgot what's the right thing to do and their mind were swallowed by the temptations and committed sin against righteousness.
Doing the commandments of the Lord results to GOOD LIFE and there's no reason not to do it.
As I journey my life going to other places, I've discovered that there are a lot of people who don't believe in Him. They're baptized but, don't have belief and faith. I am not against them, but it's just painful for my part because they don't love what they should love. Faith is the connection through your soul, having something to believe in life is how you feed your soul.
As what I learned form my past lessons in school, Jesus performs a lot of miracles here on Earth that are experienced in Heaven and through this, God brings Heaven on Earth. Today, miracles are rare to witness, but it's not how you see it, it's how you believe that it happens, that it existed.
It is not always to see, is to believe. Some things in life are mysteriously happening that even Science cannot explain, they may have theory and evidence that make people believe. Science and my Faith can be connected, Science shows a lot of amazing things and they helped my Faith grow more stronger because it shows how amazing my God is. He created smart and genius people to explain these things, He created life, and different things to learn in this life, that makes it not boring for people. Life is about having fun with challenges and not to give up on it.
"Heaven is on Earth"
Some people are successful both Heaven and on Earth, some experienced so much pain, and hatred on Earth because of doing the right thing but surely be comfortable with God in Heaven.
I don't know what heaven looks like, but I have no doubts that in Heaven you will experience happiness and equality. Doing the right things results to good consequences but, people are tempted by things that aren't necessary like Earthly things, being obsessed with money and power, that they forgot what's the right thing to do and their mind were swallowed by the temptations and committed sin against righteousness.
Doing the commandments of the Lord results to GOOD LIFE and there's no reason not to do it.
As I journey my life going to other places, I've discovered that there are a lot of people who don't believe in Him. They're baptized but, don't have belief and faith. I am not against them, but it's just painful for my part because they don't love what they should love. Faith is the connection through your soul, having something to believe in life is how you feed your soul.
As what I learned form my past lessons in school, Jesus performs a lot of miracles here on Earth that are experienced in Heaven and through this, God brings Heaven on Earth. Today, miracles are rare to witness, but it's not how you see it, it's how you believe that it happens, that it existed.
It is not always to see, is to believe. Some things in life are mysteriously happening that even Science cannot explain, they may have theory and evidence that make people believe. Science and my Faith can be connected, Science shows a lot of amazing things and they helped my Faith grow more stronger because it shows how amazing my God is. He created smart and genius people to explain these things, He created life, and different things to learn in this life, that makes it not boring for people. Life is about having fun with challenges and not to give up on it.
"Heaven is on Earth"
Sunday, June 10, 2012
"The empty space"
Did you try to put chemicals on a bottle?
Let's say there's 3 bottles with chemical, the chemical A, B & C .
There's always a time to put the right chemical in each bottle. The chemical A must be put by the end of the day, The B is for the next 2 days and the C is For 7 days. There's always a right time for everything..
We put the chem. A at the end of the day....
After 2 days we put the Chem. B ...
But, we are impatient, curious, ignorant and we want to put Chem. C even if it's just the 3rd day.. We know that the right time is at the 7th day but still we put it on 3rd day.
But, at the end, you realized we should put the Chem. C at the right time because the result won't be good and accurate. So, you let go of Chem. C and start another experiment.
It's like teenagers, we experienced puppy love but, sometimes we go over the limit.
We enter serious relationship, even we know it's not the right time, and if we enter that kind of relationship it may cause pain, stress and damage in our life.
We know it's because of uncontrollable desire, curiosity, ignorance and for being impatient.
Some people, who are open-minded could see the right path and knows and admit that they did wrong.
But, some people who only relies on their own understanding and decision without opening their mind to other people who are concerned and giving right wisdom for them, couldn't even hear what other people say, people could be stupid in terms of being in the situation of being blind. They are closed-minded person that they will just listen to the people who aren't against them, who supports their decision even if it's wrong.
When you realized that you did wrong, and you're about to move on, it's a long term process but, some people could just make it short, if and only if you're willing to. But, after you moved on, you will feel this emptiness inside you that makes you feel there's something missing that you can't even figure out what, why and how. But, it's the sign that you're already moved on. The space within you is the space that you let go during the process of moving on. So, it's like letting go of Chem. C , you threw everything, you let go, moved on, and start another one.
** Make sure you will fill the space at the right time. If you don't want to start all over again.
Let's say there's 3 bottles with chemical, the chemical A, B & C .
There's always a time to put the right chemical in each bottle. The chemical A must be put by the end of the day, The B is for the next 2 days and the C is For 7 days. There's always a right time for everything..
We put the chem. A at the end of the day....
After 2 days we put the Chem. B ...
But, we are impatient, curious, ignorant and we want to put Chem. C even if it's just the 3rd day.. We know that the right time is at the 7th day but still we put it on 3rd day.
But, at the end, you realized we should put the Chem. C at the right time because the result won't be good and accurate. So, you let go of Chem. C and start another experiment.
It's like teenagers, we experienced puppy love but, sometimes we go over the limit.
We enter serious relationship, even we know it's not the right time, and if we enter that kind of relationship it may cause pain, stress and damage in our life.
We know it's because of uncontrollable desire, curiosity, ignorance and for being impatient.
Some people, who are open-minded could see the right path and knows and admit that they did wrong.
But, some people who only relies on their own understanding and decision without opening their mind to other people who are concerned and giving right wisdom for them, couldn't even hear what other people say, people could be stupid in terms of being in the situation of being blind. They are closed-minded person that they will just listen to the people who aren't against them, who supports their decision even if it's wrong.
When you realized that you did wrong, and you're about to move on, it's a long term process but, some people could just make it short, if and only if you're willing to. But, after you moved on, you will feel this emptiness inside you that makes you feel there's something missing that you can't even figure out what, why and how. But, it's the sign that you're already moved on. The space within you is the space that you let go during the process of moving on. So, it's like letting go of Chem. C , you threw everything, you let go, moved on, and start another one.
** Make sure you will fill the space at the right time. If you don't want to start all over again.
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