Sunday, June 10, 2012

"The empty space"

Did you try to put chemicals on a bottle?
Let's say there's 3 bottles with chemical, the chemical A, B & C .
There's always a time to put the right chemical in each bottle. The chemical A must be put by the end of the day, The B is for the next 2 days and the C is For 7 days. There's always a right time for everything..
We put the chem. A at the end of the day....
After 2 days we put the Chem. B ...
But, we are impatient, curious, ignorant and we want to put Chem. C even if it's just the 3rd day.. We know that the right time is at the 7th day but still we put it on 3rd day.
But, at the end, you realized we should put the Chem. C at the right time because the result won't be good and accurate. So, you let go of Chem. C and start another experiment.
It's like teenagers, we experienced puppy love but, sometimes we go over the limit.
We enter serious relationship, even we know it's not the right time, and if we enter that kind of relationship it may cause pain, stress and damage in our life.
We know it's because of uncontrollable desire, curiosity, ignorance and for being impatient.
Some people, who are open-minded could see the right path and knows and admit that they did wrong.
But, some people who only relies on their own understanding and decision without opening their mind to other people who are concerned and giving right wisdom for them, couldn't even hear what other people say, people could be stupid in terms of being in the situation of being blind. They are closed-minded person that they will just listen to the people who aren't against them, who supports their decision even if it's wrong.
When you realized that you did wrong, and you're about to move on, it's a long term process but, some people could just make it short, if and only if you're willing to. But, after you moved on, you will feel this emptiness inside you that makes you feel there's something missing that you can't even figure out what, why and how. But, it's the sign that you're already moved on. The space within you is the space that you let go during the process of moving on. So, it's like letting go of Chem. C , you threw everything, you let go, moved on, and start another one.

** Make sure you will fill the space at the right time. If you don't want to start all over again.

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