"SIMPLE things makes the BEST THINGS"

Best things in our lives are composed of SIMPLE things ..

simple things makes up the best things that happens in our lives.. 

Relationship grows with simple things,

one simple smile makes someone happy..

Having a simple life is GOOD..

simple is easy, no problems, no bigger responsibilities, no etc.

being SIMPLE is BEAUTIFUL. 

" TRUST "

"TRUST"

Many people have it, many people want it, many people need it, many people want to bring it back.

Trust is a small word with 5 letters but, it is vulnerable, it's like a glass, once you broke it, it's hard to fix or it's like a crumpled paper when you make it straight it will not be the way it used to be. 

Friends that are far away

I am in a situation that my friends whom I trust, whom I loved, whom I used to be with, is FAR..
They are so far from me and I am so far from them.
But,
I am so Glad & Happy that despite of not being with them, even if we are far apart, we never have and we never set boundaries between me and them, we still communicate and they are the same as if I never LEAVE..
FRIENDS Like them, are HARD TO FIND,
 really hard to find..
That's why I treasure what we had, what we have and what we are right now.
Because I know someday the friends I once Had will became "SOMEONE" in the near future and no one knows it even their own selves..

Great things in life can happen in a blink of an eye ..
and we don't know who's the lucky person....
 maybe it is one of our friends..
"NO ONE KNOWS"

Even they are FAR ..
I'm still here,
if they go away,
I'm still here,
if they turn back at me,
& when they look back,
I'm still here..

I am a FRIEND who'll never change even if I'm not the best
 I will still stay ..

"My reality"

I once Planned to GIVE UP ,
I LOVED this LIFE I have , it's PERFECT, it's REAL, it's the life most people WANT..
but, with just one choice I made, with just ONE ...
I just felt the feeling of being ALONE even if I'm not, even my Family is around me but, I just felt that it was like THE END, that I don't have someone to LEAN ON, to SHARE my burdens with because my friends are so FAR ENOUGH for me to share my problems ...
But,
Luckily I DID NOT .. I DIDN'T GIVE UP that easily..
it's the TRUTH that ones you are trapped in a decision you made, a choice you choose you have to STAND by yourself, be STRONG and always feel the presence of someone who makes you feel you are strong.

GIVING UP is also a CHOICE ,
A serious CHOICE that anyone can choose, it's EASY to do, it's easy to choose & easy to make, but hard to get up once you chose it.
It's like going to a wrong door and was closed and locked, it takes time until one person helps you to GET UP, helps you to be out of the wrong door you entered..

Once you have a BIG BIG problem as if you can't solve it..
remember:
There's no PROBLEM that can't be solve, we know some of it are hard to solve, hard to find a solution but IT HAS, Problems have SOLUTION and the solution is within that problem, analyze and ask help.

"JUST BE AFRAID, JUST DON'T GIVE UP"
...TRY BEFORE YOU QUIT...

"Life isn't fair"

Life is not fair, it's not always the way we want to be, sometimes you are UP sometimes you are DOWN ..
it's the reality we need to know.. To accept what had happened, to see the reality that ones you've done it, "IT'S DONE" you can't brought it back .. you can't have a time machine to go back somewhere you want to change , but it's never been to late to make the mistakes and wrong things RIGHT ..
YES, we BLAME, we have REGRETS, we have DOUBTS, but all we need to do is to LEARN from it.
We know that it is already GONE, the things, moments and memories but we experienced it and that's what we should treasure ..

Someday Be Back Again
     by: Ingrid Marie Tubon

I can remember the days when we used to laugh and smile at all the times.
When we think our friendship will be forever mine... (but it's not alright)
Cause when the time passes by, same to you when you walk by..
The memories we shared will be kept right to to your heart
And when I think of you, I hope my dreams came true 
That Someday, be back again...

I know its true, that we're not there with you
But your face is all in our hearts..
Yourself remains in our minds....
Your voice says you'll be back again

Someday is a long time.. I wait for you
And everytime I see your smile, it reminds me of you
That you were here with me, smiling back at me
But its not reality but still, I know Someday.. be back again

Cause when the time passes by, same to you when you walk by..
The memories we shared will be kept right to to your heart
And when I think of you, I hope my dreams came true
My Friend you'll be back again....

I composed this song to my friend :)
The music of this song is not yet finished heheh :)
But the lyrics are done :)
Faye thank you for your friendship..
Your one of a kind..
I ♥ u
-Ingrid :)

-- This composition form my friend really touches my HEART.. even though they are so far .. they never FORGET me.. 
Ingrid is a special friend of mine.. she is simple but a smart one , she is humble and a helpful person with a GOOD HEART .. she TREASURES especially FRIENDSHIP .. living so faraway with them is hard .. but I KNOW SOMEDAY I'LL BE BACK AGAIN ... 
--ILOVEYOU SOO MUCH INGRID !---

[M/V] TAEYANG (SOL from BIGBANG) - WEDDING DRESS [HD]

Being HAPPY

Happiness is not a thing that we can touch, it is the feeling people want to feel,
each person felt this happiness..
but, sometimes it's just outside..
Most people felt sadness inside but cover it with happiness outside.
Some people fool their selves that they're okay no problems, they're happy but, inside it is the opposite.. 
it's so frustrating..
Happiness should not only be outside, it should also be inside ..
every single emotion counts.. 
Smiles cover sadness.. 
you can fool other people that you're "OKAY" even you're not,
 but, you can't fool yourself..


"Happiness is not meant to cover sadness, it's there for you to be happy inside & out"

"Living with REGRETS"

Living with regrets is such a complicated situation..

I mean.. when you have regrets in your life, you can't live your life happily..

you know why? because there's something at the back of your mind and that is sadness, shames etc.

regrets are often express in saying "sorry" to the person..

But, sometimes REGRET can be with you until your last breathe especially....

lemme give you an example.. 

when there's a person you hate or you are holding grudges to that person,

and you didn't know that his/her time is short to live here on earth.. 

and you just realize to say "Sorry" and make "PEACE" to him/her but when that time comes, "It's TOO LATE"  .. well, that's how life goes.. and it teach us a lesson..

when, you have grudges.. well, we know that grudges comes with pride.. you should not hold 'em too much..

I mean.. you should not hold that GRUDGE too long.. because we don't know what will happen next .. sometimes, people make mistakes.. 

EACH ONE OF US do have mistakes and we know the feeling to be scolded and we don't want that right? 

So, when someone did something that we don't want and he didn't meant that to happen, let's not come to the point that we hate that person, give 'em chance.. "Everyone deserves second chance" 

BUT, when that person do it over and over again.. Let yourself teach 'em a lesson..  

"DON'T HOLD GRUDGES"

-- So that you won't have REGRETS--

--15--

"Believe that every ending has a new beginning"

When you feel alone, or you feel so down, don't forget there's always someone who's willing to make you smile and pull you up..
If that someone is busy and you can't reach 'em then, make your self happy and learn to pull yourself up,
you can't always rely to other people,
don't put your strength to other person,
put your strength in yourself,
if NOT you'll be weak...
put God on your heart .. he will help you ..
if you're in darkness, He will let you see the LIGHT...

When there's a part of your life that is about to END, don't ever lose hope,
 "when there's a story that was about to end, there's a new story that is about to come.."
Our life is already planned, believe that God wrote our life story..
even some people don't have a good life here on earth maybe, there's a purpose.. of course we don't know that but, we can guess.. maybe, they will have more GOOD life on heaven where God is..
and when our LIFE is about to end in this world...
there will be another story coming....

"EVERY ENDING HAS A NEW BEGINNING"

"Don't press the delete button!"

When we want to forget something in our life,
we would wish that we can forget it as easy as pressing the delete button,
and delete it in the recycle bin so that we can't restore it again..

But, life doesn't run as easy as that...
because we aren't a computer,
we can't be repaired,
we have our own ways, thoughts & feelings..
and people don't run our lives, we run our own..

Sometimes, we have that kind of experience or happenings in our life that we don't want to happen because we chose that to happen,
even there were things that we don't really want but, still it happen ... maybe, it's the consequence of the things we did or it's just really meant to happen to teach us something we have to know.

That's how God made us...

Life is a mystery ...
it's too short...
we have to run our lives in a Good way..
because we don't know what will gonna happen after this life we have here on earth...

" Opportunities are important "

I refused so many opportunities in life,
especially when i was still a kid, i refused so many lessons to learn,
and i just realized that it was an opportunity that many people want,
and now I'm finding who I am in my new world,
but I know, it's not too late....


"When there's a door that was closed there will be another door open"
God never closes a door, if ever he closed one, there will be another one open....

"Good Opportunities are important,
NEVER refuse one"

"It's really HARD"

"Leaving someone behind is hard,
but to be left is harder"

When we have thoughts in the back of our mind,
most of it comes true,
It's really HARD when the thoughts at the back of your mind saying..
"your relationship you have will end" or "You will not have this or that" especially when you really want it..
It's really painful right?
but, you can't do anything with that,
you just have to be ready on what's going to happen,
so that when there's something happen that you don't really want,
you'll not be hurt soooo bad..

fear of losing someone you love..

                                                                                   

FEAR shows NO TRUST,

sometimes, 

being JEALOUS shows FEAR,

but, that kind of FEAR is....

the FEAR OF LOSING THE ONE YOU LOVE..

& it doesn't always mean you don't have TRUST...

it just shows you really LOVE that person... 

but it should not be "TOO MUCH"

REMEMBER: "FEAR is toxic in every Relationship, 

you should know how to get rid of it"

A Poem I made for my dearest FRIENDS ..

Smiles, laughter & tears,
are now only memories,
dreams, nightmares & fears,
things we share in cheers.


Missing the smiles, laughter & noise,
with my friends, best friends with choice,
we share our sides with a loud voice,
but, no matter how loud, we still have poise.


Thoughts, feelings & secrets,
things we share to our best friends,
blames, mistakes & regrets,
the things we don't want at the end.


even though we are thousand miles apart,
you will never be replaced in my heart,
saying goodbye is my life's hardest part,
but, I know this is one of the life's art.

Statue - Lil Eddie [2009 RnB] w/ Download

--You say that you LOVE--

You say that you love rain, but you open your umbrella when it rains.
You say that you love the sun, but you find a shadow spot when the sun shines.
You say that you love the wind, but you close your window when wind blows.
This is why I am afraid, you say that you love me too.
--William Shakespear--